Murph I feel exactly the same way you do! Nobody and I mean nobody on the forum or on planet Earth can prove either heaven or hell is real because nobody has been to either one for a visit and came back to talk about it. They believe Heaven does exist because of stories they have been told all their life, to basically give them the warm fuzzies on the inside. 
Far as I'm concerned I end up in a wood box 6 feet under dirt... exciting aint it?
		
		
	 
You are correct.
There are actually three resurrections.
The resurrection of the Righteous.
The resurrection of the condemned.
The resurrection of the entire House of Israel. Those who died before Christ, before salvation was offered. See Ezekiel's 'Valley of the Dry Bones'.
One of Jesus’ most significant miracles recorded in the Bible was the  resurrection of Lazarus from the dead (John 11). There are other  instances of people who had been raised from the dead, but unlike those  mentioned before in the Bible, Lazarus had been dead for an entire  period of 
four days. When Lazarus died, Jesus said, “ ‘Our  friend Lazarus sleeps, but I go that I may wake him up.’ Then His  disciples said, ‘Lord, if he sleeps he will get well.’ However, Jesus  spoke of his death, but they thought that He was speaking about taking  rest in sleep.” (John 11:11-13, NKJV).
 The Bible compares death to sleep more than fifty times. When we are  asleep, we are unconscious; we are not aware of the passing of time or  of what is going on around us. That is what death is like as well. The  Bible says, “for the living know that they will die; but the dead know  nothing… their love, their hatred, and their envy have now perished”  (Ecclesiastes 9:5, NKJV, see also Psalm 146:4; 115:17). It makes sense  that after Lazarus was raised from the dead, he doesn’t share what he  saw or experienced. He didn’t have anything to tell, except that once he  was dead, and now he is alive! He didn’t experience hell or heaven. He  was simply “sleeping” in his tomb. Peter on the Day of Pentecost said  the same of King David. “Men and brethren, let me speak freely to you of  the patriarch David, that he is both dead and buried, and his tomb is  with us to this day…For David did not ascend into the heavens…(Acts  2:29, 34).
 Many Christians think of the soul as an immortal entity within us  that goes on living after death. What does the Bible say? Describing the  creation of human beings in the beginning, the Bible says, “And the  LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his  nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul” (Genesis 2:7,  KJV). Other Bible translations say, “. . . and man became a living  being” (NKJV; NIV). God did not put a soul into man. He formed the body  from the dust of the ground, and then He breathed His life-giving spirit  into the lifeless body—and the result was a soul, or a living being.  When a person dies, the reverse takes place. The breath of life departs  from the body, and the soul no longer exists. That’s what the Bible  says. “The dust returns to the ground it came from, and the spirit  returns to God who gave it” (Ecclesiastes 12:7, NIV). At the  resurrection, God reunites the body and His life-giving spirit—and the  person lives again.
 If souls existed as separate entities that lived on after we died,  that would mean we have immortality. However, the Bible says human  beings do not have immortality. Only God is immortal (see 1 Timothy  6:15, 16). Paul says that the righteous “seek for glory, honor, and  immortality” (Romans 2:7). If we had immortal souls, why would the  righteous seek after something they already have?
 Though we may die, Jesus says, “I am the resurrection and the life.  He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live.” (John 11:25).  We will receive immortality when Jesus comes again (see 1 Corinthians  15:51-54). The Bible says that all those who have died—both righteous  and wicked—will be raised to life in one of two resurrections. The  righteous will be raised to life at Jesus’ second coming. “ For the Lord  Himself will descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of an  archangel, and with the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise  first.” (1 Thessalonians 4:16, NKJV). According to this verse, the  righteous do not to go heaven when they die. They remain asleep in the  grave until Jesus returns and raises them to immortal life (see 1  Corinthians 15:50-57).
 The wicked are raised to life in a separate resurrection—the  resurrection of condemnation. Jesus said, “Do not marvel at this; for  the hour is coming in which all who are in the graves will hear His  voice and come forth—those who have done good, to the resurrection of  life, and those who have done evil, to the resurrection of  condemnation.” (John 5:28, 29, NKJV).
 The prophets never mention in the Bible that the righteous  immediately go to heaven or the wicked go to hell when they die. Neither  did Jesus and His apostles teach it. When Jesus was about to leave His  disciples, He did not tell them they would soon come to Him.  “Let not  your heart be troubled; you believe in God, believe also in Me. In My  Father’s house are many mansions; if it were not so, I would have told  you. I go to prepare a place for you.And if I go and prepare a place for  you, I will come again and receive you to Myself; that where I am,  there you may be also.” (John 14:1-3, NKJV).
 When He returns, our loved ones asleep in Christ will awake from  their tombs. No matter how long the time has passed, be it long or  short, will be but a moment to them. By the trump of God, they are  called forth from their deep slumber they will begin to think just where  they ceased, awakening to a glorious immortality.
 “For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised  incorruptible…So when this corruptible has put on incorruption, and this  mortal has put on immortality, then shall be brought to pass the saying  that is written: ‘Death is swallowed up in victory.’”
The last  sensation was the pang of death, the last thought, that they were  falling beneath the power of the grave, but then, imagine, when they  arise from the tomb, to the shout,
 “O Death, where is your sting?
O Hades, where is your victory?” (1 Corinthians 15:55).