I’m not sure what he meant by it. Yes I have had help along the way when needed. I am retired, my helpers aren’t so I wait until they have time to come with me to do anything that I need help with. Anything I can do alone I did by myself.
The cat (Sonnie) we think was dropped at our gate and he never left so we adopted him. He has an automatic feeder and plenty water for when we aren’t there.