Contact Howse and wait on them to send you the Owner's Manual for that machine. You'll need to furnish them the Model Number off the tag. If not present they can guess pretty well based on your description. You may need to send them a photo via email.
Howse blades can be hard to find in some areas. You said you had two different blade lengths----one's been cut off, ground off, or you have one or both incorrect blades. You need to start fresh with the OEM part number or you'll never get it right. Howse will have a number stamped on them somewhere if not worn off.
There are literally hundreds of different bushhog blades--make certain you have the correct offset and direction of rotation and mounting hole size---in addition to length.
Locally, I pay about $50 for a set of two blades for a 6-ft Howse.
You might want to go back with new mounting bolts. Make sure the stumpjumper keyway slot is clean and make certain when reinstalling bolts the keyways line up.
Check local pawn shop for large sockets, extension, and break-over bar or buy a bushhog wrench to fit. Use a cheater pipe and penetrating oil. Lube the threads and keyway with thread sealant (pipe dope, not LocTite) when going back together.
After removing the nut the blade bolt will probably be tight. Put the nut back on just to top of bolt and use a piece of wood to punch the bolt loose.
Sharpen blades annually or as needed by removing and using a 4.5-in hand grinder.
Check gearbox and use 85-140-W gear oil or per Howse specs. Some of their gearboxes have a level indicating plug, some don't.
Tighten EVERY nut on the entire implement and go back with new NyLock nuts.
Blades can, do, and will bend and break. First time it happens you'll have a strong desire to be someplace else. Get out of PTO as fast as you can, go back to shop, and install new blade set. Retighten all bolts, again.
Keep those U-joints greased. Replace missing zerks (one each end). Look carefully, may be sheared off.
Please keep us all informed regarding your continuing experiences that we may all learn.