My grandad told me about Joe who didn't have much experience with women and was nervous about going on a blind date.  He asked one of his co-workers for advice, and his bud told him that the most important thing would be to give the girl a compliment if he wanted to develop any kind of relationship.  .  The next day when Joe came to work his buddy asked him him if he had a second date lined up.  Joe told him "No, that advice about a compliment didn't work".  When asked to explain, Joe said he and the girl were dancing up a storm and having a great time and then he told her "Gee, you sure don't sweat much for a fat girl".