I second the recommendation to check the electrical part of the third function assuming it’s an electrically controlled diverter rather than a fully mechanical valve.
I have a dealer installed WR Long diverter type third function to run my grapple. Just today, while doing storm cleanup, it refused to open while I was trying to dump a load of brush. There are two little wires that go from the loader control grip where the switch for the third function is housed to the relay for the diverter. There’s a little plug in the side of the control grip for those wires. It looks like it would be more at home inside a computer case than on the outside of a tractor. I unplugged it. Plugged it back in. Worked another 4 hours without further problems. Second time I’ve had to do that in 650 hours. First time was at about 300 hours.
Every time I’ve had issues with the grapple lid hydraulics, it’s either been electrical (in my case, that little plug), or a quick connect that wasn’t seated (even if it looked like it was).
Chances it’s getting pressure and flow but the cylinder is the problem are pretty small. If that’s the case, you should see the hoses flex/pop a little when you actuate the third function. If you have hoses on the tractor side of the quick connect and have a problem with the quick connect, you should see that little bit of movement on the loader valve to front quick connect hose, but not on the quick connect to grapple lid cylinder hose.
You say you’re getting nothing at all, so I’m betting on an electrical issue. Quite likely a corroded or loose connection somewhere.