Yes.
I had to get some grade 8 bolts and havent had trouble since.
Other than the bolts I love the system but I have no others to compare to.
I also had an angle issue as you described. My tractor is much older and Im sure a lot more slack in the lift arm balls etc...and there is a considerable difference between relaxed position and under a load position. I believe it describes that in the installation instructions but I still had the same issues you were describing so I split the difference just a little.
Over time you can look at the wear where the 3pt lift pins have been rubbing on the quick hitches and possibly make adjustments as need be.
Good luck.
Thanks. I retightening everything today. Ill give the included hardware another chance.
I feel like when I'm tightening things down, with a simple 9/16 wrench, I'm going to break the grade2 hardware than came with it. I tighten and tighten and it keeps going so I stop and run the lock nut tight.
I guess I should look up the torque specs on grade2 bolts.