Actually Dave, on a M9, the outboards are segregated from the center carrier by a seal in the end of the axle case at each end so the outboards oil is separate from the main axle. Having said that, I had a bad outboard seal on the left side and replaced it last year but intermixing of the oil isn't the end of the world other than the fact that the oil level in the axle case (at the level plug when full) will be higher than the outboard level plug so if the case seal between the outboard and the main axle case is leaking, removing the outboard case fill plug will result in oil overflowing the filler port.
Not gonna squirt out, but it will overflow. Not hard to replace the seal, if I remember right you take the tie rod mount off and remove the 6 capscrews that secure the outboard to the axle case and remove the outboard as a complete assembly but, it's heavy and a two person job. There will be the seal and a shim inside and the seal is an easy install. Rather than pop the tie rod end, I just unbolted the casting the tirerod mounts to and moved the assembly out of the way.
Far as I know, the front axle and outboards are not vented on the M9's.
I don't use UDT in my front axles, I use Shell Spirax 85-140 gear oil. Always have from the first change.
I'm sure UDT/SUDT is fine as well but I feel more confident with an extreme pressure gear oil in the front axle versus the Kubota oil. Mine take a lot of abuse.
There ain't no 'diff yoke shaft'. It's unequal length half shafts from the center planetary to the outboards. When you pull the outboards, you can pull the shafts out if you want to. In fact, I recommend that when putting in a new seal anyway. I think the seal was 9 bucks at my dealer. You do need to coat the mating surfaces with 3 Bond and make sure the locating dowel is in the correct spot when you put the outboard back on as well.