just an update, replaced the seal. the steps were easy, actually getting parts off was not. the collar had no wear to it and the o-ring was like new. the seal however came out in about 20 pieces. after pulling the old seal out i decided to go ahead and clean out the oil pan following kubotas directions in the manual (the oil pan has a plate on the side that you take off and wipe it all out with kerosene) i replaced the oil filter as well. put the tractor all back together and filled the fluids. spun the motor over by hand a few hundred times with a socket on the front pulley nut. went to start her up aannnddd.....
brand new 3 month old starter craps out on me. thankfully under warranty. took another month to get another starter, took two day to get it put in because i had to loosen the water intake manifold for the starter to have the clearance to fit (something i totally forgot from before) trip to store for antifreeze since i didn't like the look of what came out. filled radiator up, tightened up water intake further to stop leaks (not easy to do as bolts are behind starter). go to start tractor aannnddd....
dead batt (cus words for next 10 mins as i search for jumper cables) hook up jumpers and gave it a bit to give a little charge. go to start the tractor aannnddd..... thump,thump,thump,thump,thump,thump,thump.....
let her run for a good hr while periodically checking everything over then took her for a joy ride around the block with the kids in the wagon behind.
that was end of may last year and shes been a good girl since. can say she is darn reliable for a 44 year old girl with rolled over hrs.