Lots of good questions, and I only have thoughts about the actual answers.. I will start with what I actually know.
1) My present bulbs don't have the locating tabs on them, however, neither is there any interference with the housing with the new bulbs having the tabs, since the flange of the bulb is external to the housing. Even if there was an interference problem, I could easily snip the tabs off and file the edges smooth.
2) The bulbs are 20 SMD LED's each, and I don't believe that 40 small SMD LED's (2 bulbs) will draw anywhere near 100 watts of power. Even if they do draw 100 watts of power, that is only 10 watts more than the present incandescent bulbs (45x2=90). For the sake of argument, I am assuming that the 2 bulbs combined the seller is representing that they will draw 100 watts combined.
3) Presently the 2 GE1931 bulbs have 2 filaments each that draw 45 watts as marked on the side of the bulb. Both filaments are active when the headlamps are illuminated. What I don't know is if each filament is 45 watts, or if both combined are 45 watts. I do know that in a U.S. automotive lighting, that on a dual filament bulb, on high beam, only one filament is energized at a time. Also, US bulbs will rate each filament separately. The current bulb only shows one rating of 45 watts. This is a European headlamp bulb, and I have no idea how the Europeans wired their headlights, single filament illuminated at a time or dual filaments illuminated for high beam. My initial thought is that both filaments combined are 45 watts, times two is 90 watts, however, until I take a meter to them, I just don't know. If my assumption about the original bulbs is incorrect, and each filament is 45 watts, and you multiply 4 filaments (2 bulbs) times 45 watts that is 180 watts, or 20 watts less than the new bulbs. What I do know is that a worse case scenario, the new bulbs are 100 watts apiece, that equals 200 watts for both bulbs. When you consider that 200 watts is only 16.667 amps at 12 volts, and that is less than half of my alternators output, I don't believe that there will be any problem of current draw.